In developing the presentation for my seminar for adult singles, I was thinking back to what was at the core of my great relationships in the past, and I realized that in every single one (including the ones that didn't work!), it always came down to three core things and that in every single one I could tell you which two of the three things worked well, and which one I had to compromise on. There was one woman I never got the chance to really have an on-going relationship with who I think I MIGHT have had all three with, but the timing/stage-of-our-separate-lives was wrong (maybe that is another dimension I need to add in!).
- "Passion" relates to pheromones, attractiveness, sexual appeal/compatibility,
- "Personality" is all about sense of humour, confidence, leisure-time interests, laid-backedness, etc., and...
- "Intellect" speaks to their interests in politics and books, their smarts, their ability to chat about things you find interesting, etc.